“Are you the intern?”
05. May, 2010 
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Dear Globot,
I work for a small ad agency and I’m the youngest person in the office. EVERYONE finds it hilarious to point out my age at the most inappropriate times. Like when I’m giving a presentation or meeting new clients. It’s always “This is our kid genius” or “here comes the baby of the group”. Initially it was endearing but 6 months later it’s annoying. I don’t want to ruffle any feathers because it’s a small office but I’m over it. How do I politely tell them to stop it?
Being the littlest tike in the office can get old pretty quickly. I’m leaning on 30 and I still hear “Are you the intern?” comments. It’s unbelievably annoying.
I’m sure someone has called you ma’am since you've graduated college. Therefore you deserve adult-like respect. That being said, it’s time to assert yourself buttercup.
The next time someone at work makes a cute little compliment; politely say “I would prefer you call me by my name instead of kid genius. Thank you!” Say it quickly, like you mean it and move on to the next powerpoint slide.
Trust me, they’re going to have a joke or two. And they may not take you seriously right away. Despite their various reactions respond politely, wear a smile and remain firm in your approach. Your body language should stay I respect you, enjoy working at this agency but I’m your peer not your kid sister. Eventually, they’ll get it. You just continue to be professional in your behavior.
In conclusion, avoid whining; sucking your thumb or childlike fits and you’ll earn their respect.
Now get back to work...
Globot
